MY MOTHER EXPRESSED

Obssesively controlling mother? help?

My mom is really caring, helpful and supportive when she’s in a good mood. But her habits piss me off so much and makes me so mad.
Sometimes I would drop a piece of paper on the floor, and she would SCREAM at me for being messy and a slob. And sometimes she folds clothes for me, and if I dont come downstairs to get it in the next 5 seconds, shell yell and yell at me for not appreciating her "hard" work. She cares about the LITTLEST things, and picks and picks on you.
Also, if I try telling her she made a mistake/make her say sorry, she starts rambling about how she gave up her youth for me?? How she’s a slave in our house and she works so hard ( all she does is drive me to school and cook, when my dad makes all the money.) Her chores are SOOO easy and she thinks shes so important. She obviously lacks motivation to start finding a job, so she’s in a bad mood all the time. And when she talks she qoutes these things and tries to sound like an important phliosopher, even though she never accomplished anything in her life. She tells me Im fat and I should stop eating like a pig. What kinda mom says that to her kid?

What do I do about her?? It’s impossible to respect her, and she just gets worse and worse by the day….

It sounds like your mom may suffer from OCD. However, She is also trying to teach you responsibility. This is no excuse to call you a slob or lazy. You’re mom had to have given up a lot for what she thought was best for you, if she says she gave up her youth for you. It sounds like she lacks some maturity. This is resulting in you resenting her. Maybe you should take the high road, respect her wishes, respect her. Believe me, housechores are very important and when you do them on a daily basis, it takes a lot of motivation. Cooking & Cleaning is a full time job. I’ve seen houses that didnt have someone cleaning it daily/weekly- it is horrible! Appreciate her for that atleast. Go make something of yourself, then you can insult her. Although I hope by then you will have the maturity & knowledge not to bash her for choosing to be a stay at home mom, and hopefully you will understand how hard and very important it is.

My grandson and his mother passed away unexpectedly together. I am looking for a poem for loss of both.Help?

They both died in a house fire and I keep searching for a poem to give tribute to both mother and son but cannot find one. I can find ones on sons and ones on mothers, but not for the loss of them together. Could anyone direct me to any site that has poems for this difficult situation? It would be greatly appreciated.

I’m very sorry about your loss.
I thought this poem was very suitable.

Gates of Prayer – Reform Judaism Prayer Book
As long as we live, they too will live;
For they are now a part of us:
As we remember them!

At the rising sun and at its going down we remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter we remember them.
At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring we remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer we remember them.
At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of the autumn we remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends we remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live, for they are now a part of us. As we remember them. When we are weary and in need of strength we remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart we remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make we remember them.
When we have joy we crave to share we remember them.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs we remember them.
For as long as we live, they too will live,
For they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

There are other beautiful poems on this site:

http://www.nextgenmemorials.com/memorialverses.html

mother poems?

I need a poem to read for my 76 year old mothers wedding. Anyone have any ideas?

Below are links to two of the best poetry resources I know. You can search by subject, which makes it easier to find what you want.

Theres also this one…that I love, and read to my sister when she was married the second time. Its appropriate for a daughter to a mother….

You are the mirror of my past,
The giver of my dreams,
The hope for what in life may last,
The jewel that time redeems.

You are yourself, of course, no less,
But also you are mine,
The light of all my treasured days,
The gift for which I pine.

Long may we this closeness share,
This place where memories play,
And if our friendship needs repair,
May love reveal the way.

And now that you’re to be a wife
With loves and passions new,
May you find in your sweet life
The joy I have in you.

joy to you on the wedding day…..

My mother told me she was pregnant with my boyfriend’s baby?

My mom is 32, I’m 15 and my boyfriend is 16. They were having sex behind my back and now mom told me she’s pregnant with his kid. I’m so freaking angry that I could kill both of them!!! What should I do?

Wow i’d kill them both.

Mother Letter quotes YouTube

see the site www.motherletter.blogspot.com

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Sarah Phillips: Tribute to her dying mother “Autumn by Paolo Nutini”

NOW AVAILABLE ON ITUNES FOR 79p ALL PROCEEDS TO DEBBIE PHILLIPS CERVICAL CANCER FUND
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I recorded this into my mobile phone in my bedroom on the 10th February 2010, the evening my mother, Debbie Phillips, died of cervical cancer. Family friend, Charlie Mole, subsequently added the musical accompaniment. This was played as a tribute at her funeral on 25th February. Cervical cancer has for a long time been the ‘poor relation’ of other cancers. The Debbie Phillips Cervical Cancer Research Fund has been set up as part of the UCL Cancer Research Trust to fund research into the detection and treatment of cervical cancer. The link will take you to a site which will enable you to make a donation to the fund. If you like my song please make a donation.

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Poem from mother to daughter – My Daughter

Poems from mother to daughter

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Nasheed My Mother لسوف أعود يا أمي By Ahmed Bukhatir ,, WoW +MP3..

A Wonderful Nasheed (( Vocal Song )) By Ahmed Abu-Khater ,, It’s Called Ummi (( my mother )) ,, And It Is A MUST Watch ..
MP3

http://www.mediafire.com/download.php?tqgjyy4zgmy

The Translation :
I Will Come Back Mother Kissing Your Luscious Head
Divulging My Longing To You And Sipping Your Right Hand’s Essence
Nuzzling My Cheek In Your Feet’s Soil
Watering The Ground With My Joyful Tears
How Many Nights You Were Sleepless Working To Get Me Sleeping Like A Kid
And How Many Times You Were Thirsty But You Worked To Water Me With All Tenderness
And I Will Never Forget Your Rainy Eyes When I Was Sick
And Your Restless Eye Scared Of Any Danger May Happen To Me
And What About Our Farewell In That Dawn ,, What A Hard Dawn It Was
No Heart Can Ever Describe The Abandonment That You Faced By Me
Then You Said Something I Couldn’t Forget Up Until Now :
It’s Impossible That You Will Find Warmer Arms Than Mine
Oh My (( Life’s Joy )) The Creator Of The Universe Commanded Me To Be Loyal To You
Your Content Is The Secret Of My Good Fortune And Your Love Is My Faith’s Sparkle
Don’t Be Sad Mother ,, Here Am I ,, I Came To You With Teary Eyes
Don’t Be Sad Mother ,, There Will Be No Separation From Now On ,, Until The Separation Of Death

Sorry For The Bad English ..

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amazing qoutes…..what do you think?

Everyone knows not to stare into the sun. It’s something your mother tells you when you’re a kid. "Don’t look at the sun or you’ll go blind." But sometimes you want to understand something so badly that you’ll risk going blind for just a glimpse of what it all might be about."

"Why do people want so desperately not to be alone? Why is it more comforting to think you are being watched than to know that no one at all is watching? And why, really, does that make us any less alone? In the end, if there are others out there, then wouldn’t we be, all of us, still alone together?"

"We’re all standing at the edge of a cliff all the time every day, a cliff we’re all going over. Our choice isn’t about that. Our choice is about whether we want to go kicking and screaming, or whether we might want to open our eyes and our hearts to what happens once we start to fall."

I think when you’re older, what gets hard is that you forget how to take things as they come, and sometimes, the things "We all like to think that we have some control over the events in our lives, and a lot of the time we can fool ourselves into thinking that we really are in charge. But then something happens to remind us that the world runs by its own rules and not ours, that we’re just along for the ride."

Deeply philosophical. Are you having a miserable day today?

On MOTHER’s DAY………………..?

When I returned back home in rain:

Bro Said Y you didnt take Umbrellah?

Sis advised Y should’nt you wait till rain ended?

Father angrily said you will only realize after getting cold n flu.

BUT

my mother while drying my wet hair, said: Stupid rain cant it wait till my child get back home…………
This a Mother, Tribute to all the MOMs world over

Aww, I wish i had a mom